The Truth Behind Break-Ups
Do you ever ask yourself the question? Why do women break up with men? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. And you’ll wonder why, because he treated her great and really seemed to worship her.
Did you ever hear that line “Nice guys finish last?” Well, there’s a little truth to that statement. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she’ll wonder what’s wrong with you.
Does every female have that view? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But Many women subscribe to the “grass is always greener” mentality. The man of their dreams could be the next one they meet.
So, what do you do when a woman breaks up with you for seemingly no reason at all? The first thing you WON’T do is call her, text her or go visit her. She evidently took you for granted while you were together so let her have some time to miss you.
Get back to your life quickly, don’t let the devastation grow. Get out of the house, see your friends, and its okay to start dating again. Dating can be a beneficial way to find a woman with the confidence to appreciate who you are.
What you really need to ask yourself is whether you want to be involved on that level with a person who is so insecure. Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you think she’s the perfect one for you, give her the time and space to catch up. It is never impossible to mend a relationship, as long as the trust remains.
If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.
In short, she needs to prove herself as an appropriate girlfriend or lover. Let HER be the one doing the chasing, not the opposite. If you finally catch her, be mysterious. Keep in mind, she may be uncertain how to respond to a decent guy, so don’t overwhelm her.
Am I saying treat her bad? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If you really want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can make it happen!


