I was resolute to get my ex back even though he dumped me. We naturally have no idea how to get our exes back, and when we try, we say the incorrect things and alienate them completely. I made countless mistakes before I got my ex back.

I didn’t try to keep tabs on my ex, following them and running into them by “accident.” Stop doing this because it never works in your attempts at getting back together.

My breakup happened to be a rather emotional one, so I needed to give both myself and my ex some time to “cool off” before making any attempt to get my ex back.

Take yourself out of that breakup drama by distracting yourself and occupying yourself with other things before trying to “get my ex back”. This might sound like you’re actually avoiding the issue of the breakup, but you cannot make sound and rational decisions if you’re still emotionally red raw from what was said or done by you or your ex in the heat of the moment.

You could take a class, take a trip or get fit! Anything that is going to take you out of just sitting home and fixating on your ex. Truthfully, doing the latter is a surefire way to make the wrong decisions and lose your ex for good, instead of getting them back.

I decided to come to grips with what was actually going wrong in our relationship, and where I was to blame. Do not beat yourself over what you did wrong, but acknowledge it and start to think of ways to get your ex back.

Because as much as the sky is blue, to get my ex back I had to give them a really good reason to start things over. And to do that I needed to come up with a solid plan to right all my wrongs I had done in the relationship, so that a breakup would not happen again.

It really is that simple for getting back together - give yourself some time to sort out your thoughts, solve your position in the breakup and then attempt to “get my ex back”.

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