One of the men at our seminars came up and said, “My wife gets overly emotional. What’s with her? If I say anything nice to her, she’s all over me. So I don’t say anything nice.”

His wife was standing behind him, listening and bursting with life. She was beautiful to look at and a delightful conversationalist. It surprised us when she agreed that his description was correct. Since she usually had to draw every compliment out of him, though, and it was getting more difficult by the year, she was trying to encourage him when he did do it on his own. As a result, when the poor fellow did venture out a bit, she was so thrilled she virtually attacked!

Our suggestion was that he cut a deal with her: He would make an effort to say nice things to her every day. Her part of the deal was that she would quietly and gracefully accept his compliments.

Objectively speaking, her reactions were a lot better than those of some wives with whom we’ve dealt. They are ones who are so turned off that once their men start tiptoeing into the scary territory of trying to meet their ladies’ emotional needs, the women simply shrug or get angry. When that happens a husband must continue to be positive and continue to act in the right way. Hopefully his wife will eventually warm up to his compliments. Every smart woman should!

When a woman is emotionally starved for her man’s attention - and most women are just by virtue of being women - she either gets that attention in a nice way or in time she shrivels up inside and turns off, not only sexually, but as we’re seeing a lot today, she just might walk out of her marriage. She will literally give up on having what she wants and needs.

Men are pretty much clueless. But we have to admit that women don’t understand what’s behind their unhappiness, either. That’s why we’ve written books and material and are working around the clock. We’re trying, not only to educate men and women about ancient truths that are behind their deepest feelings and reluctance, but to lead them step by step in what they can do to right their marital ship so it sails smoothly.

Marriages of the worst kind can be saved, once these truths are realized and acted upon. We’ve seen it happen hundreds of thousands of times. Our message is different, we assure you, than almost anyone’s out there. Our methods work. You can save your marriage, strengthen your marriage and make your marriage one to be envied if you follow them. There are materials for husbands and material for wives. on our site.

Determine to do what you can to turn your marriage into an exciting, love filled one. Examine the materials that are at this website you’ve tapped into: www.loverelatiomshipheadquarters.com and start clicking away. We have answers. Discover them.

Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com.

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Lance Armstrong won the Tour de France so many times, despite the bitterness of the French press that tried to discredit him time and again, that it astonishes us. He rose from cancer victim to cancer conqueror to cycling victor. He had the singular mindset that cancer would not beat him. At times he fell behind other cyclists in different stages of the races. Reportedly, falling behind was on purpose so he could conserve his strength for more difficult stages. Other times, it was because someone, perhaps a sprinter, put on a burst of speed and outdid him. Whatever, he kept himself from being discouraged, figured out how he could have done better, and charged forth again with victory in mind.

He proved himself to be a champion racer. He did not quite make it to champion father. With several legitimate and illegitimate children to his credit and discredit, he seems to show no remorse, at least publicly, over his apparent failure as a good husband or father.

Nevertheless, champion though he was on the bicycle, he was a dud when it came to relationships and marriage. With several legitimate and illegitimate children to his credit and discredit, he seems to show no remorse, at least publicly, over his apparent failure as a good husband or father. If he had been a champion husband he would have used that will power to work on his marriage and not leave a string of failed marriages and relationships behind him. His legitimate children would still have a full time father, and his other children wouldn’t have to carry the stigma of illegitimacy around with them all of their lives.

Perhaps the fact that he was an illegitimate child, himself, that his birth father left him and his mother, and that his mother had married and divorced three times, had something to do with his attitude toward relationships Or perhaps it was his lack of faith as an agnostic. He is quoted as saying: At the end of the day, if there was indeed some body or presence standing there to judge me, I hoped I would be judged on whether I had lived a true life…

A true life? Excuse us? Yes, he was true to cycling. No, he wasn’t true in his personal life. Or so it seems. However, since we don’t know the man personally, it could be that he would have been true had his wives been true. We don’t know who was at fault, but if he is like the majority of men, and especially since he had to be gone much of the time to pursue his career, it is likely that he didn’t meet his wives’ and girlfriends’ emotional needs - essential for women.

Every marriage should have, as its goal, love that reaches the arte level, the Greek word for excellence. “That’s easy,” says the newlywed who is still starry-eyed and the truth hasn’t hit the fan yet. “We’re doing fine,” says the husband who isn’t meeting his wife’s emotional needs. “I’ve settled for less than what I desire,” says the wife who has given up hope.

Our Love Relationship System was created for this very purpose - showing couples how to reach that level of art or close to it so that their marriages will stay strong and secure.

Be willing to put the same indomitable spirit into making your marriage a victorious journey in life as Lance Armstrong has done to become a worldwide champion; so that, unlike him, you can save your marriage and give your children that wonderful knowledge that they have steady, loving parents who will keep things together. We give you the tools and the keys for doing just that at www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com: separate tools both for men and for women. Come join us now for a sparkling future in your marriage.

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There was an article I read about a man who asked an adviser, “Why do girls go for the bad guys?” He was a decent man he explained. He treated women politely, brought them flowers and generally respected them. Then along comes a charmer who does just the opposite and wins the girl the good guy is hoping to attract.

The man needs to set his sights on a different type of woman. Most women don’t want a rude, ornery vulgar man who treats them like dirt. Only very insecure females who are a bit on the dense side would want that. Or they’ve been watching too many nasty guy movie characters like Hugh Jackman’s in Australia. Even if they find low class guys that exciting before marriage - if they manage to get them to the altar, which is doubtful - they’ll soon regret it. The excitement soon wears off and marriage becomes a nightmare. Furthermore, these kinds of guys usually want to save their marriages only to keep their women under their control.

The majority of women would die for men who don’t leer, pinch and act lecherous toward them. The potential for making good husbands is there with these nice guys. A good guy like that doesn’t unceremoniously grope for his woman’s breasts or between her legs when he pops through the door. Even when it’s lovemaking time, he treats his darling tenderly, as if he were dealing with a lovely, awesome creature, encouraging her passion to rise gradually. He leaves the gross stuff to cave men and beer guzzling jerks. The good guy usually is very much into preserving his marriage, too.

And frankly, a woman who has an ounce of sense in her body will shun the jerk and go for the guy with class, even if he isn’t all that good looking. A woman may find that she is being left by the bad boy she thought was so marvelous; or she might wish to dump him and discovers that’s not as easy as she thinks. Save your marriage? We’d say, get hooked up in a good marriage in the first place and you’ll want to save it. Already married to the bad boy? Then don’t wait until you get dumped to find a solution. We’ve got the stuff you need to help make things better.

Margaret Hardisty, International Bestselling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com

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Ethan, a professional man, was angry and calling his wife all sorts of names when he came to us. “She’s having an affair with a guy she met at a roller skating rink. I just found out.” Then he burst into tears. “What can I do? I love her. I want to save my marriage.” He swallowed hard. “I don’t understand. I’ve always been a good husband.”

But he hadn’t been a good husband - not really. At least, not in her opinion. When I had the chance to talk with her she told me, “I put up with him as long as I could. I needed someone who would love me the way I needed.” Although they blamed each other, both were at fault; but in her disillusionment she started looking elsewhere outside her marriage and “fell in love” with the first guy who gave her attention. She began a love affair with him. The affair did not endure and soon she was That didn’t last, so she was off looking for another guy. Meanwhile their children floundered.

It is interesting that people find excuses aplenty for having an affair. Fortunately, physical adultery still shocks people - and especially if the faithless are famous, like Tiger Woods, or Jesse James, the husband of Sandra Bullock. At this time, it doesn’t look like either one is going to be able to save his marriage. Having sex outside your committed relationship can destroy your family, friends and spouse. Having an affair emotionally or mentally can be adultery as well. People are often caught when they are having virtual sex because the proof is in emails and web browsers. Emotional disloyalty, by choosing someone other than your spouse as your closest confidant and friend, when there are romantic undertones, chips away at married closeness and can escalate into physical betrayal.

When trust is lost, the marriage will follow. It is at that point in time that the one who cheated sometimes realizes just how much he/she has sacrificed, and there is a desire to make things better. Can it be done? Absolutely. Will it be easy? You already know the answer to that. But with the right information, it is a lot easier than most think.

Some of the biggest problems arise when the one who has had the affair is sorry, swears he/she will never do it again and then expects the offended one to forgive and forget and let the marriage go back to the way it was immediately. Forgiveness is only the first part of the process. Time is needed to heal the situation and forgiveness to truly occur. Second, though the one who has cheated often just wants things to go back to normal - they really DON’T want that. That NORMAL was what got them into trouble in the first place.

What they want is a better, stronger, happier marriage. They just don’t know how to get it. The good news is that things can improve. Time after time, we have seen couples who have experienced adultery go through the rebuilding process, follow the steps that they need to follow, and find that they didn’t just save their marriages, they made them much better than before.

Fortunately, it can be done. Time after time, we have seen couples who have experienced adultery go through the rebuilding process, follow the steps that they need to follow, and find that they didn’t just save their marriages, they made them much better than before.

You ask us, “Can you save my marriage?” We would ask you to look in the mirror and ask, “Can WE save this marriage?” We can help, yes, but the actual process takes two - you and your spouse.

You ask us, “Can you save my marriage?” We would ask you to look in the mirror and ask, “Can WE save this marriage?” We can help, yes, but the actual process takes two - you and your spouse. Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com

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When he was presented to Hailey, Ryan knew that she was the one. She wasn’t as beautiful as a few he’d known, but that was all right. She was attractive, intelligent, and easy to get along with. She admired and respected him, too.

After they were married, she fulfilled his desires by presenting him with delightful children. He was a happy man. His desires, for the most part, had been met.

By the time the children were in their teen years, though, Ryan’s mind had begun to wander. Home had become unpleasant in too many ways. His kids were noncompliant; he was experiencing financial woes, and he had no friends to speak of. Hailey and he had grown apart, it seemed, and they quarreled far too often.

He wondered if some of his old girlfriends were still around - and available - and he started trying to connect with them again. He also began flirting with various women at work. After a time, he scored and began an affair.

Someone told on him. It always happens, it seems. Hailey went through all the emotions that distinguish the betrayed: horror, devastation, anger, self-pity, blame, fear, even hatred. She told Ryan to get out and never come back. His children rejected him, too.

Ryan left, but in the months that followed, he suffered severely. He wasn’t attracted to his lover any longer. He just wanted his family back. He went to a pastor and committed himself spiritually. That helped, but he would drive by his house frequently, tears flowing down his cheeks.

Finally, he began sending notes to Hailey, telling her what a fool he had been. He mailed her flowers. He wrote to the children, asking forgiveness.

Finally, he met Hailey face to face, fell on his knees and begged her to let him come back home. Hailey said, “No,” at first and then hesitated. He continued to talk and she said she’d think about it.

Weeks went by. Ryan prayed, waiting for her decision. The pastor prayed. One day Ryan received an invitation from Hailey to come for dinner. When he got there, a candlelit dinner and a romantic setting awaited him.

Hailey had arranged to have the children stay at friends’ homes. “Dad and I have to talk about some things,” she said.

As Ryan stood looking at the preparations she had made, hope raging in his heart, she held out her arms and he enfolded her in his, tears choking him.

“I forgive you, Ryan,” she said. “Just…please…I couldn’t handle your being unfaithful again.” That night, they made love in a way that they hadn’t experienced for years. The next day, Ryan came back home.

He does everything he can - on a daily basis - to make her feel loved, cherished and secure. He transforms his sexual desires into lovemaking desires. He never ever considers having an affair or being disloyal in any way. If those thoughts come, he avoids them like poison.

A wise wife puts her husband foremost; children second. He is her king - she his queen - and she does everything she can to preserve that status on both sides. She meets his needs. She helps him do what is right toward her and in his life. She affair- proofs her marriage.

Both of them present a strong, joined, loving system of guidance and discipline for their kids who know, from their parents’ love for each other, that they are secure. Relationships stay strong and laced with love.

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V:3 I’m jealous of my wife. There’s no reason for it. I know I’m going to lose her if I don’t quit.

Jealousy had gotten the best of Olivia. She wasn’t jealous of her husband, Gavin, but she was jealous of any woman who looked at him. Gavin’s comment to us was, “She’s even jealous when I play with the kids. Frankly, I just want to run, but I need to save my marriage for their sake. If I left, she’s do everything she could to keep me from seeing them.”

Gavin was determined to do something to save their marriage. Olivia refused to go to a professional in the mental health field, but she liked our books, so Gavin thought that perhaps we could help her.

In reality, we found that Gavin was doing the exact same thing to his wife. Though she’d never been with anyone else, and although she made sure he was with her when she went anywhere and clearly was in love with the man - he was really jealous. It all came to a head when after church they got into a huge argument because she’d talked to a guy in their small group meeting. Yes, Gavin had been right there in the room. No, they hadn’t been talking about anything but the preacher’s morning message. Yes, when Gavin walked up, she pulled him in close and put her arm around him.

Gavin let his imagination get the best of him. He started thinking of all sorts of things that his wife could have been talking about to the other guy during the first couple of minutes of conversation. He demanded to know exactly what had been said, why they were talking and what was said about him. His wife patiently answered the first few questions, but as Gary got angrier, she dissolved into tears, wondering what she had done to deserve this attack. She wanted to save their marriage, but this was so awful, she wasn’t sure any more.

Jealousy is not love. It is rooted in fear. Fear generates insecurity. Insecurity, in turn, results in possessiveness, and the need to control. Possessiveness and the need to control evidence themselves in jealous behavior. Jealousy will choke the life out of any relationship and can drive even the most devoted partner away, because it creates a prison - not just for the person who is jealous but his/her partner as well.

Even marriages that are strong in every other way can succumb to jealousy. They seem to have a need to fasten an iron grip on people, jobs, ideas and attitudes and tighten that grip if anything starts to slip. They can crush the life out of the people and projects they are associated with by smothering them. These people have to learn how to react properly if they want to preserve their position in life and save their marriages.

Gentle and levelheaded people can even be effected by jealous feelings. Their jealousy evidences itself in dependency. Others soon tire of their clinging and feel suffocated by their possessiveness, so they find excuses not to be around them. They, too, need lessons on how to save their marriages.

Even gentle people can be jealous if they are insecure and fearful. Their jealousy evidences itself in dependency. Others soon tire of their clinging and feel suffocated by their possessiveness, so they find excuses not to be around them. Even the other partner needs to have support to make a change. Envy and jealousy can occur in your relationships with everyone. If you haven’t conquered the demon, you may be unkind toward your spouse’s relatives - especially your mother-in-law. You may even be envious of your husband’s or wife’s successes.

This miserable emotion eats at its possessor. It is like a cancer that gnaws at relationships. Jealousy turns otherwise beautiful people to become dark and ugly.

You can save your marriage. Go to www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com. Get rid of jealousy. Our marriage saving material is exactly what you need.

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Jarod was a client who was done with it and ready to leave his wife. “My wife Christina really does hate sex,” he told us. “At least since our kids were born. Is there any way you can help me so I want to save this marriage instead of hitting the road?”

Jarod told her about us and she decided to come to our sessions as well. “I love Jarod but I can’t stand his touching me,” she said. “I know he’s ready to leave, but if it means that I have to put up with his sexual stuff, I don’t care if we save this marriage or not.”

If sex disgusts you - if it’s a bother - or a waste of time - or it hurts - or is repulsive - or makes you feel dirty - or used - or you never experience pleasure from it…you need to realize that your reactions are not normal. There have been many women who lost their marriages because of this issue.

Why is this so critically important? Because the sexual union between a man and a woman is ordained by God and, if it’s in the right context, is blessed and pleasurable. God designed it to bind a man and woman together physically and unite their souls. Science is a major factor in this process. When two people engage in sex, two of the neurochemicals that are released are vasopressin and oxytocin. These two chemicals interact with one small but very important part of the brain that is not activated by any other emotion. This area of the brain is the same one that generates the euphoria induced by drugs - like cocaine, for example. Love, in other words, uses the same brain mechanisms that are used during the process of addiction. What happens in your body and brain can, to a large extent, cause you to get addicted to love and the person whom you love.

Other brain chemicals are released, too, like serotonin and endogenous opioids, the body’s equivalent of heroin. Sex really does relax you and improve your mood. It’s also why some people can immediately go to sleep.

Science is a major factor in this process. When two people engage in sex, two of the neurochemicals that are released are vasopressin and oxytocin. These two chemicals interact with one small but very important part of the brain that is not activated by any other emotion. This area of the brain is the same one that generates the euphoria induced by drugs - like cocaine, for example. The brain’s addiction chemicals are the same ones produced by love. What happens in your body and brain can, to a large extent, cause you to get addicted to love and the person whom you love.

You’re missing out on one of the wonderful experiences of life that no woman should be without, if you reject lovemaking. Making love should be a delight to you, as well as your guy, and though it may surprise you, most men don’t really enjoy sex unless their wives are enjoying it, too. Having an orgasm starts to mean nothing to man who cannot please his partner. It becomes significantly less fun for him too. When we talk with a woman who doesn’t enjoy her sexual relationship with her husband, we uncover a number of reasons. These are three of the most common reasons:

What are we trying to say? Only that sex is important to all of us on a number of levels: emotional, psychological and physical; and is the chemical glue that cements a relationship.

* Her religious beliefs tell her to believe that the Bible denounces sex as dirty and shameful, and that having a child as the result is the only purpose. The Bible teaches no such thing. The bible actually teaches just the opposite.

* Your husband has never learned how to make love so it is a pleasure to you. Forever My Love and Keep Love Exciting and Lasting were written with these men in mind.

Our counseling experience has exposed these reasons and even more. If you treasure your marriage and want to save it, find out why you don’t enjoy sex with your guy and then determine to do everything you can to change the circumstances. We have written a lot about why women (or men) turn off in our books and material at www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com because we know how important it is to a relationship and to the stability of a marriage.

Tell your man today that you need his help because you are determined to conquer this: “I want our marriage to survive, Honey, and I know this is an important part of that.” He’ll be deeply grateful that you love him enough to try, not only to come to the point of desiring him, but because you want to save your marriage.

Involve your partner and make a effort to beat this pattern of thought: “I want our marriage to survive, Honey, and I know this is an important part of that.” He’ll be deeply grateful that you love him enough to try, not only to come to the point of desiring him, but because you want to save your marriage. Your goal will be to like - adore - cherish lovemaking - not dislike or just tolerate it. Unless you make a conscious effort to change this attitude you may lose your marriage as a result. Save your marriage - start on it today.

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I saw my friend Gerry selling drugs recently. I accidentally ran into him downtown. He always had been conversant and he told me everything, “You aren’t going to turn me in, are you?” he asked. Actually, I wasn’t sure of his real name and I didn’t know where he lived, so that would have been difficult. Vance had become acquainted with him several years before, helped him turn his life around, at least temporarily, and brought him to our house. With Vance’s help, he had given up taking or selling drugs.

He’d had a hard life and really bad parents. His mother was a nurse who stole prescription drugs and allowed her children to use them. So his background had included stints in juvenile hall and later, prison. Before we met him, he’d had a baby by one woman he dearly loved, but because he was taking drugs and tended to be homicidal, she left him. He couldn’t save the relationship.

Once he had a child he really tried to turn his life around. He married the next girlfriend but the same thing happened. She left him out of fear, despite his desires to save the marriage.

It is foolish to take mind altering drugs whether prescribed or illegal. When life becomes puzzling, hard and frustrating, many, unable to endure until they discover an answer, take the easy way out and alter reality with chemicals. Despite the fact that, for a short period of time while they are indulging they can forget their troubles, feel good and “handle it,” (as they all say), when they are clean, they discover that their problems are still there. In fact, they’re worse. Drugs add another dark and…shall we say it?… evil dimension to their lives, their marriages, their perception of things.

Taking drugs, whether recreational or prescribed, is just plain foolish. When life becomes puzzling, hard and frustrating, many, unable to endure until they discover an answer, take the easy way out and alter reality with chemicals. Despite the fact that, for a short period of time while they are indulging they can forget their troubles, feel good and “handle it,” (as they all say), when they are clean, they discover that their problems are still there. In fact, they’re worse. Drugs add another dark and…shall we say it?… evil dimension to their lives, their marriages, their perception of things.

Some strong people can win the battle however. Serenita came to a number of Bible studies in our home. She had been unable to save her marriage because of a drug habit and lost custody of her children. When we met her, she had been clean for two years. She had a job in her chosen field, and her right to visit weekly with her three daughters had been restored. She’s active in her church, and has a lot of people praying for her. She’s going to make it. If you are addicted, you can shed the demon and have victory, too.

There are some successes, though. Serenita came to a number of Bible studies in our home. She had been unable to save her marriage because of a drug habit and lost custody of her children. When we met her, she had been clean for two years. She had a job in her chosen field, and her right to visit weekly with her three daughters had been restored. She’s active in her church, and has a lot of people praying for her. She will continue to improve and get her life on the right track. If you are addicted, you can shed the demon and have victory, too.

Your spouse, your children, your extended family, and you have a beautiful life ahead of you once you get rid of this devilish habit once and for all. It has been done by many. You will need help, but the ultimate decision to conquer is yours. Discover your weaknesses and what caused them. Then fight them as if you were a soldier going into battle and your life depended upon your using the weapons that are at your disposal against the enemy. Pray. Ask God for help. Then continue to do your part. Victory will be yours.

We have more on addictions as well as saving your marriage in our material and books at Love Relationship Headquarters. Come visit us and see how your life can be changed.

Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com

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Mary had grown up slim. However, her figure tended to move outward a bit when it came to her thighs. Still, she was very attractive and looked good in her clothes. After she’d had three children, though, her body began to move outward all over. She liked the fact that it gave her bigger breasts, but the rest was depressing to her. Actually, she was feeling trapped. Her husband was working overtime to deal with additional costs and had little time to help her with the kids.

Her unhappiness began to chip away at their relationship. He never talked about her weight but inside she felt disgusting and ugly and took her frustrations out on him. He fought back and when other things began to pound at them, such as huge bills and a job loss, she decided the only way out of the whole mess was to get divorced. She no longer wanted to save the marriage.

Despite her foolish decision, she realized that she couldn’t go it alone . She hadn’t finished her education and at best she could get a low paying job. She was concerned about the welfare of her kids. She’d have to find another man, that was all, and to do so, she needed to lose weight.

Her decisions devastated her husband who didn’t spot the signs soon enough, and once he did, he refused to change anything he was doing to save his marriage. He waited for her to make changes and did not want to make any himself.

She did make changes, only not the ones that would save the relationship. Still, part of what she should have done several years before, she did now. She started regulating her diet - stringently - and she lost weight. A lot of it. She also found another man and had an affair. The man was a dog, but because she was running from her hurt - and trying to run from herself as well as her husband - she couldn’t see that. The “dog” went his way, in time, and she scouted for another guy, found him - another dog - and in time, he went his way. Meanwhile she filed for divorce, and continued to do what she could to make her figure better.

The question is: Why couldn’t she realize that her overeating and not taking care of her body was part of the whole picture of unhappiness that she was experiencing and that it eventually would result in the loss of her marriage? Why couldn’t her ex-husband see that, as well, and do something about it before it was too late? The weight was a distraction because it was not the root of the problem. V:3

If overweight is a monster gnawing at you, determine to do something about it now so you don’t lose your marriage Yes, it’s a symptom, but getting rid of a symptom can help with getting to the root of the real problems. Problems can cause emotional stress and physical illness and it all can tie in with being overweight. The body is a marvelous machine. Every part of your body is connected to every other part in some way.

Keep in mind, when the ball comes swishing toward your bat, you’re the only one who can be there swinging. Either you practice until you hit it or you drop your bat and trot back to the dugout. You have to do it yourself. This is one thing you must do on your own. We have quite a bit of material on this at Love Relationship Headquarters. And as far as your marriage is concerned, no matter how bad or boring you think it may be, unless it is abusive, it’s worth saving - not only for your sake but for your husband’s and your children’s.

We have quite a bit of material on this at Love Relationship Headquarters. And as far as your marriage is concerned, no matter how bad or boring you think it may be, unless it is abusive, it’s worth saving - not only for your sake but for your husband’s and your children’s. We show you how, not only to save your marriage, but how to make it better and, frankly, exciting. Get started on our materials and books today so your home will be a happy, peaceful one, not one filled with strife and fat bodies.

Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com

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Many people are dealing with a marriage problem in their lives right now. When you are dealing with these type of problems, you can be under a lot of stress. Your heart will hurt and you will definitely feel frustrated and upset. Not only will you be suffering a lot from this, but your whole family is going to suffer. At some point in your life, you may think that divorce is the only way out. However, divorce is not always the best thing to do.

To begin with, you need to come to realize that you and your partner are going through some trouble right now. Simply sweeping those problems under that rug is not going to get you anywhere in life. In order to get through these problems, you will need to solve them, not run away. In fact, when you have troubles in your relationship, if you do not fix those problems, they will only get worse.

You and your spouse both need to calm down and take it all in. Sit down together and try to figure out just what the crisis is in your marriage. When you figure out the difficult situation, the both of you will need to figure out how to overcome it.

If that problem you have can be easily solved, then you need to try to fix it. However, if you are dealing with a very difficult situation that is really putting everything in jeopardy, then you may want to turn to some type of counseling.

Instead of sitting there or running away from all of those troubles, you need to stand up and do something about it. We cannot stress just how important it is to stand up for your relationship. You took those vows to be there through thick and thin, so you should do so.

A marriage problem is going to cause a lot of stress between the both of you. However, if you are sick and tired of going to bed each night mad at one another, then you need to do something about it. Within no time, the both of you will be able to step out of that horrible darkness you are in.

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